[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.gratia.cz\/materstvi-jako-ze-skatulky\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.gratia.cz\/materstvi-jako-ze-skatulky\/","headline":"Mate\u0159stv\u00ed jako ze \u0161katulky","name":"Mate\u0159stv\u00ed jako ze \u0161katulky","description":"Dok\u00e1\u017ee n\u011bkdo definovat, kter\u00e1 \u017eena je opravdu dobrou matkou? Je to ta, kter\u00e1 z\u016fstane s d\u00edt\u011btem cel\u00e9 t\u0159i nebo \u010dty\u0159i roky doma a pot\u00e9 pracuje pouze na \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dn\u00fd \u00favazek, aby ho stihla vodit na krou\u017eky a v\u010das vyzved\u00e1vat? Nebo to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt ta, kter\u00e1 jde po p\u00e1r m\u011bs\u00edc\u00edch zp\u00e1tky do pr\u00e1ce a sv\u011b\u0159\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b do … ","datePublished":"2017-09-23","dateModified":"2017-09-23","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.gratia.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.gratia.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/11f8c6ff4d174e1ebef1d6401491d0892ff6534e7a3312fbf752a8f90a4375cd?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/11f8c6ff4d174e1ebef1d6401491d0892ff6534e7a3312fbf752a8f90a4375cd?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"gratia.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.gratia.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a301426_w1927_t1511470239.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.gratia.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a301426_w1927_t1511470239.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.gratia.cz\/materstvi-jako-ze-skatulky\/","wordCount":427,"articleBody":" Dok\u00e1\u017ee n\u011bkdo definovat, kter\u00e1 \u017eena je opravdu dobrou matkou? Je to ta, kter\u00e1 z\u016fstane s d\u00edt\u011btem cel\u00e9 t\u0159i nebo \u010dty\u0159i roky doma a pot\u00e9 pracuje pouze na \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dn\u00fd \u00favazek, aby ho stihla vodit na krou\u017eky a v\u010das vyzved\u00e1vat? Nebo to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt ta, kter\u00e1 jde po p\u00e1r m\u011bs\u00edc\u00edch zp\u00e1tky do pr\u00e1ce a sv\u011b\u0159\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b do p\u00e9\u010de babi\u010dce, \u010di ch\u016fv\u011b, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b ho d\u00e1 po roce do jesl\u00ed? Troufne si n\u011bkdo hodnotit, co je dob\u0159e a co \u0161patn\u011b? Dle m\u00e9ho to uk\u00e1\u017ee a\u017e \u010das a d\u00e1 najevo potomek s\u00e1m, podle toho, jak\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk z n\u011bj vyroste. Nikde nen\u00ed ps\u00e1no, \u017ee zrovna matka, kter\u00e1 s d\u00edt\u011btem tr\u00e1v\u00ed 24 hodin denn\u011b, se mu tak\u00e9 opravdu v\u011bnuje. D\u00edt\u011b m\u016f\u017ee sed\u011bt cel\u00fd den p\u0159ed televiz\u00ed a ona u po\u010d\u00edta\u010de a jen ho ok\u0159ikovat, a\u0165 j\u00ed d\u00e1 pokoj. Nebo obr\u00e1cen\u011b. Ne, neexistuje n\u00e1vod na to, jak b\u00fdt dobrou matkou. Jist\u00e9 je jen jedno. Dokonal\u00e1 nejsme \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1. V\u017edycky budeme d\u011blat n\u011bjak\u00e9 chyby, ale to je tak\u00e9 v po\u0159\u00e1dku. Sv\u011bt nen\u00ed dokonal\u00fd, n\u00e1\u0161 partner nen\u00ed,  na\u0161e d\u011bti tak\u00e9 ne. D\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je, nez\u016fstat na v\u00fdchovu sama. Zapojit tak\u00e9 partnera a zbytek rodiny. Poslouchat rady a n\u011bkter\u00e9 si t\u0159eba vz\u00edt k srdci. V\u00eddat se s kamar\u00e1dkami a podnikat spole\u010dn\u00e9 v\u00fdlety s d\u011btmi. A hlavn\u011b nezapom\u00ednat na du\u0161evn\u00ed o\u010distu a vyrazit si \u010das od \u010dasu n\u011bkam bez potomka. A\u0165 u\u017e s partnerem nebo s kamar\u00e1dkou. N\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva holi\u010de, kosmetiky, ve\u010de\u0159e nebo n\u00e1kupy s kamar\u00e1dkou. Je jedno, co podniknete, ale odpo\u010dinout si od vym\u011b\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed pl\u00ednek, kojen\u00ed a d\u011btsk\u00e9ho \u017evatl\u00e1n\u00ed, to ob\u010das v\u0161echny pot\u0159ebujeme, abychom si zachovaly zdrav\u00fd rozum. Existuje hodn\u011b v\u00fdchovn\u00fdch sm\u011br\u016f a zp\u016fsob\u016f a bylo naps\u00e1no bezpo\u010det knih, kter\u00fdmi se m\u016f\u017eete nechat inspirovat a \u010derpat z nich. Ale nenapodobujte \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd. Zkuste b\u00fdt sv\u00e1 a vytvo\u0159it si sv\u016fj zp\u016fsob v\u00fdchovy, kter\u00fd bude vyhovovat V\u00e1m i Va\u0161emu d\u00edt\u011bti. Z\u00e1kladem je l\u00e1ska (ale ne ta opi\u010d\u00ed), tolerance a chu\u0165 pod\u00edlet se na utv\u00e1\u0159en\u00ed osobnosti mal\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u00ed\u010dka, kter\u00fd V\u00e1m \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 mami.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         3.5\/5 - (11 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Mate\u0159stv\u00ed jako ze \u0161katulky","item":"https:\/\/www.gratia.cz\/materstvi-jako-ze-skatulky\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]